Is Happiness a Choice? 10 Ways to Set Yourself Up For Joy

by | Jun 14, 2023 | Blog, Goals, Gratitude, Mindset

Manifesting Joy in Your life

Let’s talk about the idea that happiness is a choice. If you’ve ever battled depression like me, you probably have an issue with this idea. And you’d be right. For the most part, you can’t just sit down and decide to be happy when you’re not, especially when it comes to clinical depression. Moreover, it is healthy to experience the full range of life’s emotions. But you can set yourself up for joy. You can choose how you respond to situations. You can choose where you put your energy and attention. You can even change your thought patterns.

What is neuroplasticity?

Our brains are capable of change. Neuroplasticity is the process by which your brain changes and adapts in response to your experiences. It is the basis for learning, memory formation, and recovery from injury. Neuroplasticity occurs at all stages of life, from childhood to adulthood, and can even continue into old age. Every action you take and thought you have can impact your brain.

Every time you do something new, your brain creates a new connection. That connection gets reinforced when you repeat that action. This means that with time and practice, we are capable of real change. We can change our habits. Our thoughts. And our emotions. The power of repetition is that it can transform us. It can liberate us from our worst habits and bring us closer to our goals. It can help us become more mindful, reflective, and compassionate. We can use repetition to learn new skills, break out of our comfort zone, and gain self-confidence. This is how we can become the best version of ourselves. Repetition gives us the power to create lasting change and to become the person we aspire to be.

What is Mindfulness?

Mindfulness is the act of maintaining awareness of our thoughts, feelings, actions, and environment in each moment. It helps us to be more present and better manage stress and anxiety. This awareness provides the opportunity to make changes. We can start by being more mindful of our daily activities. When we do this, we can start to notice patterns that may be preventing us from living our best life. By being more mindful, we can become aware of the things that we need to change and the areas in our lives that need improvement. We can start to make more conscious decisions that will lead us to a healthier and happier life.

This is why behaviors like maintaining a gratitude journal can be powerful catalysts for manifesting joy in your life. When you first begin this practice, you may have a hard time coming up with things to be grateful for. But if you consistently maintain this practice, you rewire your brain to focus on gratitude. Which, in turn, increases joy in your life. In addition, being mindful can help you gain clarity and focus. When our minds are cluttered and overwhelmed with thoughts, it can be difficult to make decisions and take the necessary steps forward. But when we become more mindful, we can clear out the mental clutter that stops us from achieving our goals. We can start to understand our thoughts and feelings and make decisions that serve us better. Instead of getting down in our thoughts, we can begin to focus on the positive and take action toward our dreams.

10 Ways to Set Yourself Up For Joy

That is the theme of this blog, and I will talk about many strategies for manifesting joy in your life in future posts, but here are some quick tips you can take action on today:

1. Practice mindfulness:

Take the time to check in with yourself each day. Notice your thoughts, feelings, and patterns that arise. This can include focusing on your breathing, taking a few moments to be still, and observing the physical sensations in your body. It can also involve becoming aware of thoughts and allowing them to come and go without judgment.

2. Make a gratitude list:

Take a few minutes each day to write down what you’re grateful for. It doesn’t have to be anything big, just something that brings you joy. I struggled with this when I first started keeping a gratitude journal. I felt silly and had a hard time coming up with things to be grateful for in my life. But it got easier with time, and I quickly noticed the days I completed my gratitude journal were happier overall than the days I didn’t.

3. Take time for self-care:

Self-care is so important, and it doesn’t have to be expensive or time-consuming. Taking ten minutes to do some yoga or meditation, reading a book, taking a relaxing bath, or just taking a few deep breaths can make a big difference in your day.

4. Choose to be kind:

Make kindness an intentional practice. Speak to yourself and others with kindness and compassion. We all have bad days, and it’s important to remember that we don’t have to be perfect to be worthy of love and kindness. Small acts of kindness can make a real difference in our lives and the lives of those around us. Taking the time to be kind to yourself and those around you will make the world a better place. Take the time to recognize the good things in yourself and in others. Helping others can also be a rewarding experience, as it can create a sense of connection and belonging. When we take the time to be kind, we can make a real impact on the world and create a positive ripple effect.

5. Make sure you get enough sleep:

Getting enough rest is essential to our physical and mental well-being. Without adequate sleep, we may struggle to concentrate, make decisions, and be productive. Poor sleep can also lead to increased stress. Make sure that you get enough sleep each night and that your sleep environment is conducive to restful sleep.

6. Celebrate your accomplishments:

Recognizing and celebrating your accomplishments is an important part of self-care. Celebrating yourself can boost your morale and make you feel accomplished. Reflecting on what you’ve achieved can help you stay motivated and focused on your goals. Celebrate your successes, big or small, and take pride in your accomplishments.

7. Set realistic goals:

Setting realistic goals for yourself is an important part of self-care. Setting achievable goals will help to give you a sense of purpose and direction. Setting attainable goals allows you to break down larger goals into smaller, more manageable steps. This can help motivate and inspire you to keep pushing forward and progress toward your goals.

8. Spend time in nature:

Spending time in nature is a great way to practice self-care. Nature has a calming effect on our minds and bodies and can help to reduce stress and anxiety. Taking a walk in the park, going for a hike, or simply sitting outside and enjoying the scenery can be an effective way to relax and take a break from the daily grind.

9. Journal:

Journaling is a great way to reflect on the events of the day and explore your inner thoughts and feelings. Writing in a journal can help you express your emotions, identify patterns in your behavior, and provide a tool for self-reflection and growth. Writing can be a form of creative expression and can even provide solutions to problems.

10. Spend time with people who bring you joy:

Spending time with people who bring you joy is one of the most rewarding experiences in life. Whether you’re having a movie night with friends, playing a game of cards, or simply taking a walk with a loved one, being in the company of people who make you happy can help to brighten your day. It can also provide a sense of comfort and contentment and can even help to inspire and motivate you. So, go out with people who make you smile.

While happiness is not always a conscious choice, creating an environment that can foster joy is possible. Our brains are capable of change, and with consistent practice, we can choose to focus our attention and energy on things that bring us joy. Through mindfulness, gratitude, and self-care, we can set ourselves up for joy and create lasting change for ourselves and our lives.

Disclaimer: the information on this website is provided “as is” and for general information only. It is not intended as medical advice and should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional consultation with a qualified health provider familiar with your individual medical needs.

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